08/06/2026
I Thought I Knew The Story
The Story Before My Story ♥️♥️♥️
I’ve been writing about The Cups.
About my parents.
About growing up here.
About running a pub.
About the people who walk through the door today.
In my head, that was The Cups.
Then I met local genealogist Paul McNeil.
And I realised I only knew a tiny part of it.
My family arrived here in 1978.
I’ve been here most of my life.
I thought I knew this building.
But Paul started showing me records from hundreds of years before my parents ever arrived.
In fact, he has gone back as far as the records allow.
Back to the earliest references to The Cups, the families connected to it and even to Stockbridge itself when it was the only crossing point on the River Test.
As far back as it can be traced, Paul has followed it.
Blacksmiths.
Landlords.
Politicians.
Travellers.
Families whose names have long since disappeared from Stockbridge, but whose lives were tied to this same building.
At one point The Cups was even used as a hub for political elections hundreds of years ago.
One thing Paul said has stayed with me.
Families have histories.
Buildings do too.
And some of them have been standing here telling theirs for hundreds of years.
Suddenly I wasn’t looking at The Cups as our pub anymore.
I was looking at it as everybody’s pub.
A building that has stood here while generation after generation passed through its doors.
The strange thing is that Paul and I are almost telling the same thing from opposite directions.
He’s looking back through centuries of records and memories.
I’m standing behind the bar writing about the people who are here now.
Somewhere in the middle, those two worlds meet.
I’ve loved the process too.
Paul has worked incredibly hard uncovering all of this history, and it’s been fascinating meeting in the middle, with him bringing the earliest chapters and me writing the latest ones.
Because for the first time I’ve started to understand that The Cups was never just part of my life.
I’m just one small chapter in something that has been unfolding here for hundreds of years. ♥️♥️♥️