09/20/2026
This kid built Barn Door. Heโs 40 years old today.
At 5 (this pic), I had no clue what my life would look like at 40. My dad was turning that age.
I certainly didnโt imagine living in Rumney, raising a family with my best friend, and running a hostel where thousands of people from all over the world have come through the door.
I didnโt know Iโd build something people would care about. I could barely build the Tinker Toy on my head
I just kept following things that felt right. One decision led to another. One person led to another. One weird opportunity led to another.
And eventually I looked around and realized I had somehow built a life.
A really good one.
Barn Door is a huge part of that. But the older I get, the less I think of it as something I built and the more I think of it as something that happened because a whole bunch of people showed up and made it what it is.
People have gotten married here. Fallen in love here. Made lifelong friends here. Found jobs, climbing partners and adventures here. People have arrived as strangers and left with people they still talk to years later.
Thatโs a pretty incredible thing to get to be a small part of.
I think thatโs what I was trying to do all along: create a place where people could feel like they belonged.
A place where you could walk through the door and feel like you were exactly where you needed to be.
Youโre Always Where You Need to Be.
I got to talk about that idea in Montreal this year, and Iโve been thinking about it ever since.
Maybe there isnโt a right path. Maybe thereโs just the one youโre on.
And if you pay attention, love the people around you, take a few chances, f**k up occasionally (read: a lot), keep moving, and stay open to the weirdnessโฆ
you end up exactly where you need to be.
Iโm incredibly grateful for where I am. For my family. For Barn Door. For the people who have worked their asses off alongside me. For the friends Iโve made. And for everyone who has ever pulled into 30 Stone Hill Road and become part of this place.
Thank you.
I have no idea what the next 40 years look like.
But if theyโre anything like the first 40, Iโm going to have one hell of a story to tell.
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